In life, we can little control how others choose to portray us. Our reaction to such portrayals, however, speaks volumes about our character.
Such is the case of yesterday’s scathing Washington Post expose on the young Mitt Romney, and Mitt’s very telling response.
While an editorial decision to make a high-school incident – nearly 50 years ago – a front-page, 5000+ word expose smacks of bias and political hatchetry, Romney nevertheless was left in the unenviable position of having to respond to very disturbing charges.
So how does a man respond to horrific allegations that he led a group of bullies in a physical assault on a shy and awkward student — knocking him to the ground, pinning him down and cutting off his hair – all while the young boy lay crying and screaming for help?
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Option 1: If the story is simply a lie, defend yourself.
“This story is a cruel fabrication and simply did not occur. I would never participate in such disgusting behavior. The Washington Post should be ashamed of their irresponsible reporting. There is really nothing more I can add.”
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Option 2: If the story is true, admit it, humbly apologize and move on.
“This is an incident that occurred nearly 50 years ago. Even though I was only a child myself at the time, I have always felt ashamed about my behavior and offer my most sincere apologies to his family. This, however, is not the man I became – as evidenced by 50 years of moral living since then. There is really nothing more I can add.”
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Option 3: Respond with cowardice and dishonesty.
“Gee, I just don’t remember anything about it.”
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Confronted with these 3 options, Mitt reflects deeply, silently prays and searches the depths of his soul. Having fully weighed these options, he makes a thoughtful decision and addresses the national media:
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“I’d like Option 3, please.”
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Aaaah!
The old “I can’t remember if I led a group assault on a boy, while he lay helplessly on the ground crying for help” defense.
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Forgiving a man for a cruel act that he may have committed nearly 50 years ago is easy.
Forgiving that man for lying about it today is not.
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